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The Importance of Sleep

Elaine Neale • Mar 25, 2020

The Importance of Sleep


If you're having trouble sleeping... this is for you

We all know it's important to get a good nights sleep. It makes it so much easier to get everything done the next day when we wake up feeling refreshed and motivated - but it doesn't always work out that way does it?

When we're feeling anxious or depressed your sleep can be one of the first things to be effected. You go to bed feeling tired but might not be able to get to sleep, might wake up during the night and not be able to re-settle or might wake up too early. You might feel like you just want to try and sleep forever but are never able to get enough to feel refreshed in the morning. You are not alone.

Remember that anxiety list I talked about in my last blog? (See Managing Uncertainty 24/03/2020) All those things on your list are getting in the way of your sleep. When you're asleep your brain is doing it's utmost to work through that list, processing memories and working through problems. The more you can limit what goes on that list, the better chance your brain has of working through what's on there.

We've all had mornings where we've had a Eureka! moment when the solution to something we've been trying to puzzle out the previous day pops into our heads. The age-old advice to "sleep on it" holds true for a reason.

So why are you not sleeping well or continually waking up during the night? Well, your brain can't use the whole time you are asleep to process those anxieties on your list. It can only do that during Rapid Eye Movement (REM) sleep and this only accounts for about 20% of the time you are asleep. REM sleep takes a lot of energy so your brain calls a halt to it when you try to overdo it by tackling an overly long list of anxieties and the only way it can do that is to wake you up.

To get you back to sleeping well there are a few things you can do:
  • Limit what goes onto your anxiety list - don't give your brain more work to do that you need to!
  • Don't stress about not being asleep - you'll only add that worry to your list and make it harder to sleep
  • Try some relaxation techniques - focus on your breathing and relaxing your muscles
  • Play "The Appreciation Game" - Think about the positives in your life, what you are grateful for or looking forward to. Doing that helps you to stop obsessing about the problems and adding to your anxiety list, gets you thinking in a helpful way and helps you get the most out of your REM sleep
  • Listen to a Hypnotherapy Download or Guided Relaxation before you go to sleep - this helps you relax and be in the right frame of mind but also mimics REM sleep giving you and extra boost of processing time to get that anxiety list down.
Why not give it a try?

Some of my positives for the day so far:
  • My family remain safe and well and in good spirits
  • I won 2 games of Battleships in a row (Competitive? Me? I didn't think so but maybe I am ... a bit)
  • I sat down and spent some time reading a book
  • I got a phone call I'd been waiting for
  • I'm getting better at doing this home-schooling thing
  • I had 59 WhatsApp messages this morning and several texts from friends all keeping in touch in these challenging times, looking out for each other and making each other laugh. What a gift.
Stay safe, stay positive and sleep well.
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